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Leading Views: The Star Follower
Frequently, when you hear a leader say that they want followers they can trust, what they mean is they want followers who will do what they say and not question them. When they do this, they are letting their insecurities show. It’s not a healthy relationship for either the leader or the follower. The leader becomes isolated and the followers do not grow into their own potential.
Robert Kelly, author of The Power of Followership, described the leader/follower dynamic in The Art of Followership, this way:
Star followers think for themselves, are very active, and have very positive energy. They do not accept the leader’s decision without their own independent evaluation of its soundness. If they agree with the leader, they give full support. If they disagree, they challenge the leader, offering constructive alternatives that will help the leader and organization get where they want to go. Some people view these people as really “leaders in disguise,” but this is basically because those people have a hard time accepting that followers can display such independence and positive behavior. Star followers are often referred to as “my right-person” or my “go-to person.”
To Be a Fly on the Wall at Facebook on IPO Day
Facebook “goes public” tomorrow. Imagine what it might be like inside the company right now. Soon, paper stock option agreements tucked into employee compensation folders could erupt into cascades of real dollars. Maybe employees will soon barge through the doors and board shuttle busses to the BMW dealerships, software bugs be damned.
Or something like that.
What is it really like to work at a company when it “goes public?” And what happens afterward? How will Mark Zuckerberg hold on to the people who make the company what it is, now that many of them will be independently wealthy — perhaps intoxicatingly so? How will he hold them together to make the company what it can be next? How will he align the “haves” and the future “have not so much” hires to pull on the same oar?
3 Ways to Improve Your Positive Intelligence (PQ)
Daniel Goleman made a compelling and accurate case nearly two decades ago that Emotional Intelligence (EQ) was more important to leadership effectiveness and performance than IQ. But most attempts at increasing EQ have resulted only in temporary improvements. The reason is that a more foundational and core intelligence has been ignored, which is a pre-cursor to high EQ. In my lectures at Stanford University, I define this as Positive Intelligence (PQ). Without a solid PQ foundation, many of our attempts at improvements fizzle due to self-sabotage.
Your mind is your best friend, but it is also your worst enemy, involved in self-sabotage. To illustrate, when your mind tells you that you should prepare for tomorrow’s important meeting, it is acting as your friend, causing positive action. When it wakes you up at 3:00 a.m. anxious about the meeting and warning you for the hundredth time about the many consequences of failing, it is acting as your enemy; it is simply exhausting your mental resources without any redeeming value. No friend would do that.
The quickest way to get things done and make change
Not the easiest, but the quickest:
Don’t demand authority.
Eagerly take responsibility.
Relentlessly give credit.
Digital analogs are no longer sufficient
The parking meter was rebooting. I guess we’re supposed to walk to the other end of the garage and find one that’s working.
We’re seeing digital awareness coming to just about everything. In this case, it was the parking meter near the library. Of course, it’s not really a parking meter, it’s a centralized fee collection system that saves the town a lot of money. It’s easier to collect from, certainly, it doesn’t waste the time of meter readers (who get alerted as to what spaces aren’t paid for, as opposed to checking them all) plus it doesn’t let a new parker enjoy a few minutes of the last person’s payment.
I understand how the incremental sale of this device was easier to maket to the town and to the community. It’s just like what we have now, but better.

